Five Ways To Be A Better Lover – For Women
Sex is an essential, physical expression of love! However, from a woman’s perspective, it is always seen in the context of a meaningful, lasting, love relationship. It is more of an emotional experience and how the partners feel about each other determines and influences their sexual desire and performance level. For a woman it fulfills her womanhood, satisfies her sexual drive, reassures her of being loved and above all, serves as a way of expressing her love and commitment for her man.
The art of being good in bed is a marvelous skill that will result in you and your man feeling sexy, passionate about your relationship, especially when you live far away from each other. Once you master these, sex will be an awesome experience for both of you!
The following are 5 enticing tips for women to be better in bed:
- Erotic massage
Arousing a man is rarely a difficult and tough job. A great way to arouse and excite your man and show him that you really love and care for him is by an erotic, sensuous and titillating massage. An erotic and seductive massage can stimulate your man’s sexual desire.
Caress and fondle your man gently with your hands or with a massage oil. With your tantric touch you can send his pleasure and satisfaction soaring. This little sweet torture builds your man’s anticipation and when you finally set out to make love every move and touch of yours will be extra delicious for him. Begin by stroking with your hands then with your hair followed by your breasts to quickly excite and tantalise him.
Make him lie on his back and start massaging his legs, abdomen, inner thighs, chest and nipples. Now pour some massage oil on his penis and testicles and gently massage and squeeze this sensitive area. An intimate massage in this erogenous zone will make him go crazy with excitement.
- Initiate sex
It is men who usually initiate sex. However it will be a pleasant surprise for a man if you take the turn to initiate sex. Men really adore and fantasise about a woman who knows what she really wants and knows how to get it. Use sexting as a powerful tool to turn him on, when you are not together. If you initiate the sexual spark you will be able to please him better and you will also feel more pleasurable and enjoyable.
- Take the charge
Generally men like to take the lead in sex. However they also love when their partners take the charge and lead from time to time. Your confident and assertive approach towards sex will in fact surprise and excite him. You can start your fantasy play by seducing him, stripping him and deciding on the positions.
When you take the lead you are showing him that you are really enjoying yourself and trying to making him enjoy too. Especially if he struggles with performance anxiety, or other sex related issues your enthusiasm will be highly appreciated.
This reversal role will excite him more and also enable you to explore and express your powerful sexuality.
- Look good in bed
Wear sexy lingerie that enhances your sex appeal and makes you look good too. As arousal starts with the eyes it is essential that you look good and sexy for your partner. Seeing the voluptuous curves of your body through the thin and flimsy night dress can set his pulses rising.
Hence make sure you wear sexy clothes that complement your body. You can also go a bit extreme and dress outrageously as men are turned on by what they see. Remember that even sexy underwear can tease and tickle your man to give the most exciting and pleasurable experience. Yes, sexy lingerie can make you look incredibly dazzling and enhance your sex life.
- Try new positions
Never go through the same moves and same positions each time. Be creative and try out new postures and positions for sex. This will make sex more exciting and thrilling for both of you. Experimenting and trying out new positions and seeing how they feel like is a real fun experience.
Use of sex toys to discover his erogenous regions can stimulate him and add extra pleasure to his orgasm. Leave your comfort zone and be creative in your sex life by experimenting and experiencing new erotic positions.
If you want to be better in bed make him realise that sex is more than physical closeness – it is an emotional adventure and pleasurable exploration.
There you have it – five great ways for women to be better in bed, and as I said before, once you master these, sex will be an awesome experience for both of you and your partner!