I am a teacher at a large school. One of the female students who has a fantastic figure often comes into class wearing skimpy tops and tight trousers. All the guys in the school fancy her. After class, she is normally the last to leave and she often comes to my desk and leans over provocatively with her cleavage showing a pair of heaving breasts. She must know that it really turns me on. Is she teasing me? Or is she just being friendly? Is she deliberately trying to turn me on for fun? I’ve been very professional and try to help her in class. What should I do? Thomas
Well firstly Thomas you should continue being professional as this could have a serious impact on your job. This female student could be trying to gain your attention which is common in young adolescents as they can fantasise about teacher to student relationships. On the other hand she could be completely unaware of what she is doing therefore it may be worth talking to a fellow female teacher to have a word with her about her revealing clothing. Either way she does need to be told she is dressing inappropriately for school and it can be off-putting to males. Once she has been made aware it will make you feel a lot more comfortable while teaching her.