Dear Agony Aunt Nicola
I am a 25yr old guy who prefers older women and a lot of my friends think it’s crazy that I prefer to date women near enough double my age. I do think girls my age are too immature and increasingly annoying, it’s easier to have a conversation with a sexy older woman. Longterm wise I know it’s not the best situation to be in a relationship with someone who’s at a different stage in their life where they’ve had kids etc. I do want kids but majority of time the ladies I date don’t want to so then we end our relationship which is really painful. Please help? Adam
The first thing you need to do is not worry about what people may think. It’s your life and you live it how you want, if you prefer the older woman there’s nothing wrong with that. As the old saying goes age is just a number, we can’t help who we are attracted to or fall in love with. Society is changing where women are putting their careers first before having kids, therefore new mums are becoming a lot older. Think positive and find ways to meet lots of different women of all ages as you may be surprised you may find a mature girl of the same age that you click with, who knows!