Hi Nicola, I hope you can help me with my problem, my partner of just over three years is getting tired of my constant affection towards him. I just can’t stop telling him how much I love him on a daily basis. He finds this hard to understand and he finds it exhausting as I am a bit over the top. He is on my mind 24/7, and I don’t eat properly as I feel totally love sick. Please can you help? Thanks Jilly.
To love someone too much can be painful and you do need to find ways to deal with your strong emotion as this could cause issues in your relationship. Your partner could feel suffocated from your constant attention. Take a step back and think of ways to control your feeling of excessive love for your boyfriend. You could occupy your mind with a project or activity so your sole focus isn’t on your partner. Meet up with friends socially and enjoy their company, join a club that interests you, and so on – there are many things you can do to help you overcome your deep feeling.