My partner is suggesting a threesome

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My boyfriend Dave has suggested we need to spice up our sex life. We were cuddling in bed the other morning and he seemed a bit distant so I asked him if everything was alright – and he just blurted out that he would like to try a threesome. I was shocked and as we chatted more, it turns out that top of his list for a threesome is one of my friends – Kacey. Now Kacey is a very sexy woman and I know she has tried most things sexually in her time. I have never been with a woman. I do love Dave, and I am confused. Is Dave really looking for a threesome, or is he just after Kacey?

Hi there,

The first thing you have to ask yourself is are you happy to join in with your boyfriend’s wish to try a threesome. Communication is priority when it comes to being in a relationship, if you are concerned with his request then you need to make your concerns clear. If it’s something you don’t want to do then you need to find out if this would affect your relationship with him for the longterm. Knowing that he has your friend on his list for this act will no doubt raise concerns over his feelings towards you and why he has chosen your friend. Having a similar interests with your partner helps reinforce a good relationship and when one has an interest or fantasy to fulfil then you both have to feel comfortable.

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Nicola

I am a life coach and a trained relationship counsellor. I have a number of years experience and I enjoy nothing more then helping those in need. I like to think I am able to help those in the trickiest of situations.
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